Do We Fear The Unknown???

I’m the type that loves romantic movies and cries at weddings…I’m the type of person who believes in love and loves LOVE wholeheartedly…However, I am afraid of falling in love…I can love a person but I never fall TOO deep, I never fall in love completely…Why is that??? Because I fear the unknown…I have seen friends and family fall in love and get hurt then it affects them in every shape of form…I don’t want that to happen to me..I don’t want to go into depression, lose everything over a breakup…

I want to bounce back and move on to the next…But it seems like when a person gives their all and fall in love they end up hurting for a long time…

I want to fall in love with someone that I know for a fact won’t do me wrong, she won’t cheat, she won’t be disloyal, and she won’t take advantage of me…and etc…

I want a guarantee that we are in this relationship FOREVER…But guess what? There are no guarantees in life, there are no guarantees that the person you “love” will LOVE you in return… the same way you LOVE them…

So I guess I need to try it for once…and just let it happen and FALL in LOVE…Because maybe…Just maybe…She will be the one and I can have the happy ending for once…

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When someone loves you….

Everyone is so good at saying, “I love you.” The three most important words that everyone loves to say. Sometimes you can be in a long relationship with someone just to find out you really don’t love them…You can be in a short relationship and have the same thing happen…so how do you know when someone truly loves you?

The real test is to break up with them…and see how they react to your absentness…if she just moves on…then she doesn’t love you…

If she fights for you and the relationship and still doesn’t want to be with anyone else but you then she loves you…I mean even after the breakup, she is still fighting for it and months later still fighting for it, then best believe this woman loves you…

Most times, our exes move on so fast and you are looking like dang, lol…how they do that…Well the truth is because she really didn’t love you…that’s how come she is able to bounce on to another one…

And you should be happy to know that…bc who wants to be in a relationship with someone who will drop you and move on without thinking twice?!? No one…so let her go and be with someone else…and meet your ride or die chick who won’t do that to you.

Why is it so hard to be friends with other lesbians?

Like since lesbians are the minority, you would think that lesbians would get along with one another. However, that isn’t the case…It seems like lesbians don’t get along at all…

What could be some of the reasons? We all know that women in general sometimes have a hard time getting along in general. Ask some of your straight friends and I’m sure they will say the same…Some lesbians tend to think there is always a competition with one another or someone wants what they have or who they have…when a lot of time, it is isn’t true…

It’s hard to trust people because we have all been shitted on at one point of time…But don’t let the past ruin a potential good friendship…

I classify myself as a stud and I don’t have many “stud” friends simply because I thought they were messy…they may try to talk to your girl or just be “fake”…these are my past thoughts…I don’t feel that way anymore, because I have learned that the problem was me not giving them a chance to be trusted…Let’s be honest…sometimes we are our own problems…thinking that someone is out to get you…when no one is probably even thinking about you…

I’m learning to trust people and really believe that ALL people are good until proven wrong…So try it as well…We need each other because we have rights that needs to be fought for and we can’t do it alone…Period…we are a family and we need to help each other and not tear each other down…

LOVE one another…because no one is perfect, but God knows that and he still LOVES all of us!

LOVE LESBIAN BLOGGER: Why is it so hard to find a good woman???? Have...

LOVE LESBIAN BLOGGER:
Why is it so hard to find a good woman????
 
Have...: Why is it so hard to find a good woman????   Have you ever asked this question before??? So why is it hard to find a good woman?  ...

Why is it so hard to find a good woman????

 

Have you ever asked this question before??? So why is it hard to find a good woman?

 

 Maybe it’s because you are looking too hard.

Have you ever lost something and you looked all over for and still couldn’t find it??? Then one day when you aren’t looking for it, it just pops up!!

 Right that is true when it comes to love…If you are spending all your time looking for it; you won’t find it…So STOP it! Let LOVE POP UP on you when you least expect it…there so many good women out there, trust me there are but each one may not be a good fit for you…so don’t stress it, the right woman will find you….

I love LOVE and I welcome LOVE, but I want my next partner to be so intrigued by me that I don’t have to approach her, hell let her approach me…As a stud (masculine woman), I always think I have to go out and get her…but for once, I’m chilling and letting her approach me. I have always tried the other way and look where it got me, single…LOL. So in life, if your way doesn’t work…then try another way and see the results.  It’s always a good thing to try something new. Live your LIFE with no worries.

 

However, let that good woman find you….Stop LOOKING for HER…Hell, I want to be surprised…

 

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Doesn't it seem like lesbians tend to move fast?!?

As a lesbian, myself, I have done this a lot as well..It seems like the best way to move on is to find another partner...However, it gets old fast...Moving fast causes more drama and etc. It seems like when I did move fast from one relationship to another, I was scared of being alone...I wanted the relationship benefits such as one a partner, company and that romantic love..Also, I wanted to front...Front to my family and friends that I was not alone..However I still was....

I am trying to break the cycle, my last relationship ended in March 2014 and I am casually dating but I want my next woman to be my lifetime partner, my soul mate...No more moving fast into a relationship without knowing the person first.

I have to admit that my last relationship changed me, not into a bitter person but a better person because I know my worth. I am worth having a faithful loving partner....Before I knew my worth but I still dealt with the bull, this time I'm not willing to deal with the bull. I know how to let go and be alone. Don't get me wrong, I still want the relationship benefits and hopefully one day I will be in another relationship but there is no rush...I'm willing to wait...I'm willing to just love me...I'm willing to spend time alone getting to know me better...I'm willing to focus all my attention on ME..

As women, we crave that affection and I'm no different....However, it is time for me to spoil myself with affection....I hope this blog helps someone, because every thing teaches us something-even the things we don't want to admit.