Does Social Media ruin relationships???

My answer is NO…Only the two people in the relationship can ruin it…

Relationships are built on foundations...The stronger the foundation the longer the relationship last…

If you go on Facebook or any social media and disrespect your partner by flirting, engaging, and allowing other people in your relationship…the foundation must not be strong…

I love Facebook…but I won’t allow others to disrespect my relationship or my partner. If you are in a relationship then your mate should feel respected by your family, friends, and you…You should never allow others to disrespect your partner.

The point is social media doesn’t break up homes…the people in the relationship do.  

There’s nothing wrong with sharing pics and statuses about your loved ones…Just don’t let people know everything about your relationship because it’s not their business…As you may know, I’m very personal about certain things..I share what I want to share…but I hate when people ask questions regarding my relationships…I don’t even ask questions regarding my friend’s relationships…I feel it’s none of my business..Facebook doesn’t tell people your business…You do.

 

Have you ever had suicidal thoughts?

Like I really believe that most people who have suicidal thoughts don’t actually go through with it because of the fear of going to hell.

Sometimes life gets hard and harder and harder…sometimes life offers us disappointments after disappointments…sometimes you look back and all you see is FAILURE.

I will open my life to you…I have never thought about suicide until now. I don’t want to die but I really don’t want more disappointments...I have just reached the age of 34 and I really feel like I haven’t accomplished much.

Life is good though, especially when you believe in Jesus Christ because you know that every day is a GIFT. He gave up his life for me, for you and for everyone…How can I be so selfish and want to end my own life?!?

This blog is really good for me, because I already feel much better…My life may be full of disappointments but I’m not here on earth for me…I’m here on earth for God. That’s my purpose in life…to serve God.

I may not be where I want to be in life…but God hasn’t giving up on me…so therefore, I won’t give up on me either.

I love him…more than I love myself.

The human mind plans the way, but the Lord directs the steps-Proverbs 16:9

 

Do you believe in love after love?

 

Lies after lies…can pull anyone away…Why is it so hard for people to tell the truth and be honest?

Is there a such thing as an honest relationship? Or is it all a fairy-tale that we will ALL have a happy ending?

All my life, I have wanted an honest relationship where there are no lies, no secrets, no betrayal…

I had to ask myself, am I the problem? Do I make it hard for people to be honest with me???

After thinking about this for some time…I found the answer…It’s not me, it’s them…There’s no need to lower my standards just because majority of people can’t meet my standards…it only means that they aren’t for me…

God knows who I deserve and who deserves me… and whomever that person is she won’t lie to me, there will be no secrets or betrayal…

Maybe I have already met her, but time will always tell…

In the meantime, I will just continue to be me and be honest and see where it gets me…

I’m allowing God to direct my steps and he is the driver…I’m just the passenger who is trusting him to make the right turns.  

Women...All women…The struggles of being a LESBIAN

 

I love women…all women…a true lesbian…

You can ask any of my friends or exes, I used to have so much fun turning a “straight” woman out or being a woman’s first lesbian…

But after my last relationship with a “straight” woman…I look at things differently.

See I caught feelings for my ex and we ended up in a 4 years relationship and then guess what?!? She decided to live her life as a “straight” woman and please her religious parents…

It still hurts because I thought she was the one for me…the one made for me…However, she wasn’t…

I keep using quotation marks around the word straight…simply because most women aren’t straight…they just choose to live a straight lifestyle…

Years ago, My college professor told the entire class that no one is born “straight” and I have thought about that statement for years…I have read books and etc out of curiosity…and I tend to agree…

Straight women flirts with lesbians simply because of curiosity…they want lesbians to want them and they want attention….however, they don’t want that lifestyle...

I mean who would?!?

We still don’t have equal rights, we still don’t get the respect that we deserve…but this is US…

I feel bad for “straight” women who choose to ignore that part of them. Can you imagine living your entire life knowing you want to try it but scared of the risks…

The risk that you may love it and want it more and more.

The risks that your family and friends may judge you…

The risks that your loved ones may turn their backs on you…

Lesbians are the shit…we take society shit and still overcomeit…

It's a pleasure being yourself…

I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

God make no mistakes.
Period.